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Who's online @ srilankanmale.blogspot.com?

(1) Sri Lankan	(2) Indian	(3) American

Join in, seek intimacy and make new friends.
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I wish I could announce that these three hot numbers are Sri Lankan Male's top chatters. The best I can offer are the top three places in country visitor stats.  Sri Lankans, Indians and Americans are the most common visitors to this blog and presumably the leading chatters.

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May I extend a big  THANK YOU  to these and ALL visitors to this site!

Sri Lanka, No. 1 India, No. 2 United States, No. 3

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I am thrilled to see Sri Lanka in first place and India in second--truly my two favorite countries when it comes to spotting the world's best-looking men. That makes SLM Blog the place to come to find Sri Lankan & Indian men to chat with!

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And here are the stats in more detail:

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These numbers are out of a total count of 5500 hits and represent countries with visitor counts at 1% of the total or higher. Except for the top three, the rankings tend to change, with nearly every country in the world represented, except for China. (current stats)

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Sri Lankan Male is a popular blog with up to 2000 hits per day. I know you guys and gals love it for the pics. I love creating a platform to display the images. But I also want myself and all of us to be able to connect and interact.
Ready to give it a go?
Ever wonder who's really out there at the other end of cyberspace?
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Then, Why Not Chat?

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What is it, actually, that brings people to chat online?

In the few times I've engaged in any meaningful chat it was quite simply to make a new friend. That is good enough reason to pursue it, right?

Another reason is to hook up for a tryst. I have never done that, but that's not to say I haven't thought about it.

But there are other things we could try using chat for.

1. Getting new informaton.
   Planning a trip to Sri Lanka? Why not pose a few questions?
   
   
2. Trading opinions.
   It can be interesting to compare your thoughts with others. What do guys in Sri Lanka think about gay marriage?  That could start an interesting exchange.

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A Few Reasons Not to Chat

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1. Nobody replies...
   It gets old fast to give your shout out and no one shouts back. Another shout out, but still nothing. Like lingering in that supposed meeting place, but no one returns your glance.
   
   
2. The conversation doesn't go anywhere.
   It probably sounds old-fashioned of me to say that chatters, especially the younger ones, don't know how to converse. One word replies, or replies that aren't even complete words kill a conversation fast. You get back what you give. Give a one character grunt and get a one character grunt back.
   
   
3. Multitasking.
   I don't know why people do it. It just ain't cool to be left hanging after each remark. People don't do that on the telephone so why should they do it when chatting? Just stop multitasking for a few minutes and have a real conversation.
   
   
4. Some chatters seem to think that to chat means, by definition, to be insincere.
   You pretend to be someone or something you're not. You make up answers to questions. So, then what's the point in chatting at all? The more you pretend the more you believe the other is pretending, too. You end up simply with no real connection with a person you're supposedly reaching out to.

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Chat the Right Way

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So, let's look at ways to make chatting worthwhile.

1. Do it purposefully--and make your purpose known. I mean, what's the point in saying Hi (full stop).
   How the hell is anyone supposed to reply back... Hi (full stop). Then what?
   Just get to the point:
   • Anyone wanna hook up in Kandy?
   • Just looking for someone to talk to...
   
   
2. Then, give people a reason to want to respond.
   You say, Looking for a hot top. Ok, that's a start, but what's in it for me. I need to know who I'm responding to. So try,
   • 30 y/o in Doha looking to chat with a hot top.
   Now, if I like the age range and if I'm in or around Doha, then I have a reason to respond.
   
   
3. Be yourself. It isn't like there is a camera to reveal your identity, and you don't need to reveal your name, but at least represent yourself as the person you are. It may be common sense for most of us, but if you're not hairy then what's the point in saying you are. If you're over 50, then what's the point in giving a false age. At the end of the day, you want to find someone interested in the person you really are.
   
   
4. Understand that we are all multi-dimensional. No one is, say, just a top or just a bottom. Each person is a million different things--complex, multi-faceted and interesting in many different ways. Represent yourself as such and seek that out in others. This works best if others don't write you off just because you are older or younger than what they think to be their preference. You, me and everyone who turns up to chat is multi-dimensional
   
   
5. Don't grunt--use words, phrases and, dare I suggest, even full sentences. Lol and :p might seem witty and cute, but they are juvenile IMHO* and only show that you don't really know how to communicate.
   
   
6. Don't multitask. Stop whatever else you're doing and have a conversation. That is the whole point of chatting, isn't it?
   *lol=laugh out loud, :p=poking out tongue, IMHO=in my humble opinion.

It isn't that hard to do these things in order to make your chatting really worthwhile. I mean, when you start typing something into the box, you really, really want someone to respond and it's really great when that response leads to a meaningful exchange. This*Is*Our*Platform So, what's on your mind today? What kind of new friend do you want to find... What ideas do you want to exchange... What do you want to know about Sri Lanka or Sri Lankan guys?

When was the last time you chatted online and had a meaningful exchange? Or when was the last time you made a new friend through chatting? Give it a try and it just might turn out special.

So, Let's Get Started...

←Click here to chat.

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He goes by the name ♥ Bunty!
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Not my advert folks... Did you read all of it? That has to be the most enticingly written invitation I've ever read. And that with an irresistibly handsome man to match! Too bad it is only for the ladies. Anyway, good luck with it, dude!

Now, anybody wanna chat?

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Bangladeshi ♣ Male Models

♣ My eyes have seen the glory...

I feature in today's post four Aces of other South Asian lineage.

♣   The Ace of Clubs, dark and sultry.
♦   The Ace of Diamonds, mesmerizing.
♠   The Ace of Spades, the absolute dark knight.
♥   And the Ace of Hearts, ripe with beauty.

To my mind Bangladesh is an undiscovered planet. I have yet to visit and explore its charms, but I suppose that it is a place with much to offer.

And I do not doubt that it is full of charm, because I have had the fortune to meet so many Bangladeshi men in the UAE where I live.

I believe that they are among the most welcome of the many nationalities which inhabit this country.

They are honest and sincere, generous, gentle, hard working and kind.

They are a predominantly Islamic people, although I have met Hindus, Christians and Buddhists among them.

Their brand of Islam is the least dogmatic of any I have encountered.

And while they are extremely devout on the one hand, they are very rare to argue, advertise or proselytize their beliefs.
Gentle Men

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Most of the Bangladehis I have met are really a gentle soul in the Ghandian mould--and full of good looks to match their good hearts.

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Linkon, a man with a promising future at modeling.

[♣]  So, what makes Linkon Bangladesh's most sensuous male model and my Ace of Clubs. Is it not patently obvious?

1. A very handsome, ethnic sort of face.
   
2. A very sexy, well-defined physique.
   
3. That ever scintillating drizzle of hair on his torso.
           Need I say more?
   
4. An attitude which says, I'm the man!

Has Linkon just got naturally good looks or is it something he's had to work at hard?

My guess is that he is a bodybuilder too, but much more into definition than bulk. That much is obvious in his great abs.

There is also something to be said of the camera work. These shots were definitely crafted.

The dark colors in the studio set the mood and Linkon, as model, is superbly attired in a sexy combination of blue jeans and open leather jacket.

I am impressed. And it is a good indication to me that Bangladesh is prepared to offer a lot in terms of handsome, seductive male models and photographers to present them.

Bangladesh is a country of relatively small geographical size, but teeming with a population of over 150 million. With more than half this great number being male and over-proportionally young, the country has potentially a vast pool would be male model candidates.

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And he shall be ♣ Linkon

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What then is the future of the Bangladeshi male model? I have featured three others on the pages of Sri Lankan Male in the past:

Other Bangladeshi ♥ Male Models

♦  Abid	♥  unnamed	♠  Ricky Blazo

Do you see what I mean now? Just look at what Bangladesh has to offer. These are only three of what I am sure are countless young men in Bangladesh who have something to offer the world in terms of male beauty.

[♦]  Abid was a prize-winning bodybuilder some years ago. He is featured in two earlier posts:

• Too Sexy... Episode 2
• BB2

His most engaging feature is a velvety skin tone. Of fairer complexion, he sports a handsome, supple torso. He is definitely the stuff of diamond class stock.

I was dismayed on getting an email from an anonymous reader a couple of years ago, saying that this promising young star was killed in a terrorist bomb blast.

Doing a Google search for any news of such an incident occurring around the time I was told, I turned up nothing. So I don't know whether the report was true or not.

Hopefully this was a case of mistaken identity and my sincerest wish is that Abid is getting on well with life and realizing his dreams in Bangladesh.

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[♥]  The second of my three previiously featured Bangladeshi male models also appears in two posts:

• Bangladeshi Fashion Male
• Bangladeshi Fashion Male--Supplement

I don't know his name, or any other details about the man.

He is especially intriguing because he has certain quintessential Bangladeshi features--light brown eyes, curly dark hair, pink lips and a nice 5'oclock shadow.

He also sports traditional Bangladeshi men's wear, which somehow only looks good on Bangladeshi men.

One of the most attractive sights that one can see in areas where many Bangladeshi men live are the throngs going to mosque on Friday, each wearing differently colored panjabi, sherwani or fatua along with their solid-colored or pattenred skull caps.
Does anyone know his ♥ name?

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What Bangladeshi ♠ men are made of!
[♠] Ricky Blazo is phenomenal in this image and in this pose. I love all of the photos of these men who have the potential to become Bangladesh's best male models, but the image Ricky strikes here is monumental.

I have yet to feature him more prominently in a post, but he made his debut on the pages of Sri Lankan Male in September 2008.

I have several more bodybuilder images of his that were sent to me by another Bangladeshi bodybuilding enthusiast. So, there is more of Ricky to come in time.

The Shape of Other Things to Come

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All four of the Bangladeshi men featured here, whether fashion model, bodybuilder or just the handsome boy next door, give the impression that Bangladesh is home to many attractive men.

I have saved somewhere on my hard drive a photo of a Bangladeshi model cum salesman standing at the entrance of a small Dhaka clothier.

That image gave me a flash of inspiration that any clothier should have on hand a handsome model or two to display its wear, rather than using mannequins or salesmen who can only talk up the product.

Handsome men sell, seduce and charm, whether they are paid to do so or not. Handsome men ought to be considered an invaluable resource to any merchandizer.

     Twenty-Twelve... Year of the Bangladeshi Male Model

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Next Edition

I could not possibly fold my hand with only the four men presented thus far, and I am sure your appetites are whet for more, too.

Alik, pictured here, is one of more fantastic Bangladeshi men I hope to present on these pages.

They hardly come any sleeker than this.

In the meantime, email me and let me know what more you like in male models--Sri Lankan, Indian or Bangladeshi.

Better yet, send me some of photos or yourselves or from your own collections.

Before I conclude, here's one more shout out to ♣ LINKON.

Friend, I'd like you to consider submitting more of your photos to Sri Lankan Male for a more exclusive spread. It is worth sharing with the world what you have to offer, being among the most handsome of your countrymen.
B.D.

He shall be ♣ LINKON

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Anonymous TN, ♂8-15

So who is ↑ he?
This is the thing that sets my heart aflutter.

...hold on my heart
please tell her to be patient
cos there has never been a time
that I wanted something more
Genesis

We all know that feeling, that illusive feeling... "...never been a time that I wanted something more."

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Young, handsome, confident...

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♂8. This Tamil Nadu youth has all three attributes and is so charming.
His eyes aren't really so hazel as shown here, but I still find his looks enchanting. Muscular build, skin so brown, dark stubble on his jaws and a sweet boyish smile...

A young, dark-skinned, South Asian Adonis.

And this young Tamil heartthrob is one more testament to...

The Real Men of Chennai, ed. 15

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The Bull of Madurai

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Tamil Nadu's over 400 year-old bull-taming festival, popularly known as Jallukattu, has once again been a bloody affair. At least 72 competitors were hurt, 11 of them seriously, in the popular event in Alanganallur in Madurai district.
18-Jan-2011

a man like few others ↑
The object of one's desire is the forbidden fruit of pleasure.
♂9. The bull is very much an emblematic beast. He symbolizes raw strength and power, virility, masculinity and dominance.

In some manifestations of gay subculture there is the master/slave dynamic.

Though mostly the stuff of fantasy, there is the dominant master who is seen as a protector even while he dishes out a sort of cruel kindness.

I am not one who is into this fantasy, except to imagine a powerful male or bull of this bodybuilder's ilk, somehow enveloping me with a mass that comprises warm muscle, flesh and sweat along with a semi-pungent bodily scent--in a kind of animalistic sensuality.

Now that conjures up something alluring, doesn't it!

That is my fantasy of a sensuous and powerful Madurai bull. It may be a kind of hero worship, or an imagined ideal. But when you see that which is so powerful, beautiful and essentially irresistible, you want to worship it. Does it mean then that you sing Its praises or do you just masturbate? Anyway, I have to say I prefer this sort of human god, which although bestowed with imagined grandeur, is at least a reality in the flesh and something to behold as real in the physical world. The god of religion is no less a figment of the imagination, but it lacks even any physical manifestation that can be admired in the real world.
That's my anti-religion coming out here, folks. But I do indeed like the beautiful things that religion inspires like temples, statues and so many other works of art. This sacred bull of Madurai in the manifestation of a bodybuilder is like a beautiful, incarnation of a black Lord Krishna.
My Lord with his powerful chest of steel seeks his consort. ↓

My Lord, here am I.
Feeling religious, visit My Sweet Lord.

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YMCA

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♂10. Young Men's Christian Association, or maybe the YMBA, Young Men's Buddhist Association would be more appropriate for Sri Lanka.

In the USA I believe it is a bit of an oxymoron. One need neither really be young or Christian, although the male part still applies.

In any case this young blood, Chennai bodybuilder would be a good model for the YMCA image. Like the hit song of the disco era, the YMCA is all about young men and the things that young men and their male admirers enjoy.

Young man, >>
there's a place you can go.
I said, young man, when you're short on your dough.
You can stay there, and I'm sure you will find
Many ways to have a good time.
Y.M.C.A.

Take a cursory look at the YMBA website and it looks very Buddhist and male, but not at all young. The Sri Lankan YMCA, on the other hand, does appear quite true to its namesake. The website even lists hotel accommodations in the Negombo area.

I would love to hear from any Sri Lankan Male aficionado members of these organizations.

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Body Mass Index

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♂11. This is one bodybuilder who seems to tip the scales. Dare I say he appears more mass than muscle, but in some of his photos that it just the thing that gives him a body beautiful.

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Uninitiated in the craft, I wonder how most bodybuilders really develop so much mass. Is it purely from eating foods rich in protein and carbohydrates or is it just eating lots of everything? Perhaps it's the protein drinks and other concoctions that do the trick. Bodybuilders, I'd really love to know what your secret is.

I am sure the key is to get big, while not getting fat. What you see is what you get. >> So, this I imagine is the kind of mass many bodybuilder's aspire to. This kind of bulk in a man is quite impressive to see. But what a challenge it must be to maintain, to sculpt and to keep in harmony with the rest of the body. You've got to somehow have strong bones, good elasticity, good posture and good blood circulation. Bodybuilders, need any moral support or other assistance. If you look like any of the men posted here, drop me a line anytime.

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All Black!

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♂12. Black men are so attractive... It is as though dark equates to seductive. And dark also suggests the sinewy movements of a black cobra or a more sensually poisonous black dick.

Black is the way to go in Indian or Sri Lankan men!

Available South Indian male--strong, black & beautiful!↑

Now that's my idea of the perfect partner. I'm still looking for someone to fit the bill.

Handsome Tamil Men
♂13. I don't know when it is that I first discovered the beauty of Tamil men. But I can surely say that I am now well smitten.
What handsome features ever the young Tamil male!↓

Now who could disagree that the little smile of the young bodybuilder is so attractive. A little bit of scraggly hair on his upper lip, chest and underarms or just the thing to make the young man look oh-so sexy.

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At the Gym

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♂14. Those of us who make the gym workout part of our routine are surely in the minority.

← real man

When there, we see those who have already crossed the threshold to become real bodybuilders and wonder in silent amazement,

How do they do it?
A challenge to my readers today:

Just do it... Go to the gym today and start. Anyone has got to be able to make an improvement to his physique, even if not reaching the heights of the real men on these pages. It has to be about the workout and the knowledge.

Begin with me today... for the knowledge part, try making a start here:
bodybuilding.about.com.
I'm serious guys. Email me with a pic of yourself today, then send me another one month later, after you've started your workout. Then, we'll take it together from there.
upandhi@gmail.com

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Results

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♂15. Anyway you cut it, this is what we all want to achieve. It is about having this sort of incredible definition and some degree of mass and proportion.

One more Adonis from Chennai ↑↓, the land of real men.

Let the bodybuilders of Chennai be a real inspiration to us all.
Related Links

• Anonymous TN, ♂1-7
• The Real Men of Chennai, p3
• Tamil Nadu Bodybuilders @ arabmuscle.net

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